It sucks losing a loved one (and I do include furkidz because they're so much a part of our lives). I've realized recently that Phouka is getting older and slowing down and my heart clenches. It's not the same as losing a companion in a horrible, violent way - although that's happened to me too - but I know it's going to hurt like hell when he passes away, even if it's gently into old age.

Just a suggestion from personal experience which I know doesn't work for everyone but, you should try not to put off tucking away Olive's daily reminders too long. Don't ruthlessly rush it but there are enough memories to insure that you won't forget her, you don't need to continually stumble over them and have them jerk your heart strings.

*Hugs*