I'm sorry. For you, for her, for your dad, for her friends. there's nothing easy or pretty about any of this and I'm sorry you're having to go through it again, but I agree with the folks up thread -- we can't be with you physically but we can be here for you share your thoughts, your grief and your anger with.

I'm not sure if this will help but the hospice we used for my mother, took what insurance assignments there were but even had she had none, they would have taken her. I know God is not your thing but this particular organization was faith funded and the facility (and the care) were wonderful. They sent people to the house the last ten days and then we put her in their facility for about the last week. I'd have never made it through that without them.