Hi - Sorry for the huge delay in answering this - things have been.. not good. anyway. I've thought about things for your list (which if you do ever publicly compile/post I would like to see) - i don't have anything shattering to add - just things like : Don't ask how I am if you aren't interested in the reply Don't respond to my tears by making eye contact with other people as if to say things like "ah.. she's letting it out" or "Look, I'm helping her grieve" Don't expect me to be rational - I know people move on, I know people can find new love after loss - don't expect me to believe it when it is personal. Don't make everything about the loss - I am still me.
Nothing earth shattering there, but things that have caused me pain lola
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I've thought about things for your list (which if you do ever publicly compile/post I would like to see) - i don't have anything shattering to add - just things like : Don't ask how I am if you aren't interested in the reply
Don't respond to my tears by making eye contact with other people as if to say things like "ah.. she's letting it out" or "Look, I'm helping her grieve"
Don't expect me to be rational - I know people move on, I know people can find new love after loss - don't expect me to believe it when it is personal.
Don't make everything about the loss - I am still me.
Nothing earth shattering there, but things that have caused me pain
lola