mail is fun - though the thing to remember is it's not mandatory. if cards aren't sent because life/time/energy doesn't allow, it's truly ok. I send mail to people because I like to, not because I'm expecting something in return. maybe you'll feel like sending a note out in March, when it will be a true surprise!

I'm tickled to hear about your BPAL therapy; it's a whole new arena for you to explore, and there are some really unusual and lovely scents to play around with.