It's the kindness of strangers and friends that will get me through the hard part, and I've learned in the past 24 hours that I have that in abundance.
It is the kindness of others that more often than not will get us through tough times. I've realized that myself recently.
Know what you are going through, having experienced a similar situtation myself. Won't go into the details. Also understand the desire not to live off Dad, similar situation believe me.
What has helped me the most is my interaction with the online world, meeting people in person, interacting on live journal, reading others journals, being able to see that I'm not alone and others do go through the same things and the mere fact that I've touched someone I've never seen or heard, means that I'm far from useless. Clearly you have. Useless people don't get a large number of responses to a live journal entry.
Venting helps to. Writing out the pain. Putting it to words. At least it did for me.
I hope things get better soon...for both of us. (Oh chocolat brownies with chocolat mint frosting? VERY HELPFUL...;-)) Sharing a cybernetic brownie with you and a cybernetic hug...
Kindness of strangers
It is the kindness of others that more often than not will get us through tough times. I've realized that myself recently.
Know what you are going through, having experienced a similar situtation myself. Won't go into the details.
Also understand the desire not to live off Dad, similar situation believe me.
What has helped me the most is my interaction with the online world, meeting people in person, interacting on live journal, reading others journals, being able to see that I'm not alone and others do go through the same things and the mere fact that I've touched someone I've never seen or heard, means that I'm far from useless.
Clearly you have. Useless people don't get a large number of responses to a live journal entry.
Venting helps to. Writing out the pain. Putting it to words. At least it did for me.
I hope things get better soon...for both of us. (Oh chocolat brownies with chocolat mint frosting? VERY HELPFUL...;-)) Sharing a cybernetic brownie with you and a cybernetic hug...